Deconstruct

The shift in people pleaser to boundary setting is a weird thing but much needed. I've lost a lot of relationships because of that. There was a change in mindset when I turned 25 to focus on my self-awareness and self-growth. There was an internal conversation on how I wanted my future to look like and what impact and influence the people around me would have. It is challenging and gut-wrenching when you share your vision and the circle of influence you trust rejects you. Not many people are allowed to be in the promised land with you. The sooner you realize that the better off you are.